What qualities do you look for in a partner? Honestly now! Write them down. Get a pen and a piece of paper and enumerate the top four qualities you are looking for in the "right" person. Does he or she have to be fair-skinned? chinky-eyed?
As a young person, I used to have a criteria in choosing proospective partners or dates maybe. I actually developed a list of qualities which i think "the one" should have(reagrdless of the fact that I already have a total opposite-of-the-list partner!). Well, here goes my checklist:
(1) GOOD looks
(2) GREAT personality
(3) Popularity
(4) Should have interests similar to mine.
Now that I have grown out of high-school. I've been thinking that I should look for "ADMIRABLE INNER qualities in a man." I thought then, whew, this made my standards holy!
When it comes to having a partner or a date, we are always looking for the right person to be with or go out with. We look for the person who has qualities we think are important- looks, personality, having similar interests and so forth. and admit it, this really is a very important part in choosing.
(Now this part of my post would be very interesting and CONVINCING- since its me whose saying it!)
God wants us to be involved with people who have heart for Him- those who exhibit godliness in their lives. but we neeed to remember that part of dating and eventually choosing is not only looking for the roght person but also being the right person. We need to be Godly ourselves. If you have a list of qualities you're looking for in the "right" person, better evaluate yourself on that list.
In conclusion to all these talks, we each have to ask ourselves, "What kind of person do i need to be in order to find Mr./Ms. Right?" and also put in mind that TRUE LOVE WAITS.
Currently listening to: Constantly
Currently reading: Eleven Minutes
Currently watching: ASIAN TREASURES! WOOHOO.....
Currently feeling: depressed